Most of us men have been there at some point. She’s interested, you’re interested, and now you’ve got her number. Score!
The two of you go back and forth for a day or two, and really seem to hit it off. And then one day, it fizzles. She takes longer to respond. Then a little long. Then it’s a whole day. Before you know it…it’s over.
The natural reaction is to blame the woman. “She’s a flake…”
You’re right, it could very well be her, but take a step back for a moment. It’s time to be honest with yourself. Is there something wrong with YOUR game?
In fact, if you’re like most guys than you’re probably just making one (or a few) of these common ‘texting’ mistakes that will kill your chances with a girl.
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The 7 Deadly Texting Mistakes
Mistake #1: Confusing Responses for Attraction
Before you’ve had your first date with a girl, she won’t feel much of a connection to you. As unfortunate as it may be, you’re probably not the only guy texting her.
See, a common mistake most guys make when they’re texting a girl is that they mistake responses for attraction. Often when a guy is getting a response from a girl, he believes that he’s getting closer to getting her on a date or to seducing her.
The exact opposite is true!
The more texts you send before meeting up with girl means the less of a chance you have of actually meeting up with her! That’s right: even if a girl is RESPONDING to your texts, you’re not getting yourself ANY closer to actually getting her out on a date.
Instead, say more with less. Whenever you’re considering what to text a girl, see if you say it simpler, with less text. Most guys send pointless texts to women like, “How’s your day?” or “Enjoying the warm weather?” These texts DO NOT bring you ANY closer to a woman! They just beg for a response (which doesn’t mean anything).
Nobody likes their time wasted, and neither does she,so before you waste her time with pointless text messages, ask yourself the following question:
How is this text bringing this girl and I closer to a date?
If your answer is simply “to get her to know her better,” do not press that send button. It’s not going to help you.
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Mistake #2: Not Conveying “Fun”
Here is the simple truth. When a woman gives you her number she is NOT signing a social contract to go out with you…
And until it seems FUN for her… she’s probably not going to bother meeting up with you. (See above sentence about wasting her time)
So when you send pointless texts that don’t display any personality or spark some sort of emotion… in her mind you’re not worth the trouble of meeting up with.
Here are some signs you’re NOT being fun.
– Am I being stiff and formal “Hi. It was nice meeting you friday”…. (too stiff. too formal)
– Am I putting the pressure on her to keep the conversation going?
– Am I asking too many questions?
Remember, every text you send should make you seem like the FUN OPTION. The escape from her boring day.
Mistake #3: Not Having a Texting Style
If you’re texting an attractive woman chances are YOU ARE NOT the only guy she is getting a text from.
Sorry to burst your bubble.
But between other guys who are also after her, the clingy ex, co-workers, classmates, and so on… she’s got a lot of guys vying for her attention.
So if you want to stand out- your texts need to scream your personality, and what makes you unique.
She should be able to pick out a text from you from a list, without even seeing your name or number.
What words, phrases, punctuation, or emoticons are uniquely yours?
Mistake #4 Having Long Text Conversations
Text conversations are NOT the same as actual conversations.
Texting should be the “Super cool” cliff notes of a normal conversations. Meaning leave out the formalities.
The longer the conversation the more chances to mess things up or run into akward confusion.
Everytime you pick up the phone, star with an anecdote. Start with a teasing nickname. Find a way to quickly spark an emotion and get her full attention fast.
This video explains how you can (and should) accomplish everything you need to accomplish with just three simple texts.
Check out the video and learn how you can turn a woman on, and get her out on a date with a simple sequence of texts called: The Key Lock Sequence.
These things work! All you have to do is implement them. It could be right now with the girl you are currently texting. But there is more where this came from! Join our email list for Part 2, and trust me, information this good is NEVER free!
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